Nothing new can be created without losing the old

Nothing new can be created without losing the old.

That’s as true as our existence. What is old? It is our memories that we hold on to. Its our judgments that we have for things around us. Believe me, you can NOT expect a new change in your life if you have the same old routine, food habits, entertainment and thinking pattern. People start to believe that they have had their lessons of life and they tend to stick to it. Those are not the lessons indeed. Those are the boundaries that you have created for yourself. Once you stick to a particular idea, it continues to influence your life in a Big way.

Well, we don’t need to drop everything.

But yeah, we do need to drop all that we don’t like. That will be wise. That will be a little sensible. But then, you will say – how can I drop it.. its happening around me all the time. Well, you need to work on your thoughts for a while. That’s where all these things take birth. Even if you don’t believe in thought-based-reality-theory, you still need to give it a try. Nothing more has to be said. Give it a try and you will know.

Force your mind to think new things!

Force your mind NOT to think about situations and people that don’t make you feel good. Tremendous change will come. You will find yourself in harmony with things going on around you. That’s what we ACTUALLY want. To be in peace with all that is happening. To be in a joyful mood all the time. But then, we forget – we tend to be objective. If I don’t get this and that.. I won’t be happy. See, we ourselves impose conditions to feel happy and overjoyed That’s sad. Things must change for something better. That is the first step that you have to take. That is one thing that you have to do. You have to try. Just that much.

Well, you have been looking outside all the time.

For happiness .. you look outside – you tend to find happiness in parties, celebrations, drugs and so many other things!  For excitement … you look outwards. For everything that you think you need.. you look outwards. Well, if things are working great.. you can continue with that! If not, you should work on your innerself.. that would mean taking a break from all the blame-games, complaining habits blah blah. Then you can focus your attention on your mind matters. Rest that you will see can be no less than a miracle.